Are you addicted to the lifestyle?
I don't think so. I don't want to stop, but we haven't been at this very long and we are still very much in the exploratory phase of it. Addiction would imply that we couldn't do without it, and I doubt very much that is the case with either of us.
Do you feel we as a community are sex addicts being in the lifestyle?
Not as a community, but I am sure that some among us would probably fit the clinical definition. For most it seems like a pleasant hobby that is shared with others, like, say, tennis or something.
Could you quit it totally never go back to it ever?
Yes, we could. We learned to have great sex as a couple before we started and we still do. Being only with each other would not be a step down. Swinging is the icing on the cake, but the cake itself is delicious.
Have you ever gone 1 day without thinking about swinging?
Not in a long while
As I said, we're still fairly new and it's exciting. Plus, I'm here multiple times a day, so how could I help it!
-B