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Originally posted by DeesireCpl
My questions to the board are:
Are you addicted to the lifestyle?
Seems to me, to be addicted to anything one would have to have it regularly for a long period of time. In the twenty years since our first playdate, that's never happened. Nope, not addicted, but maybe, if we play our cards right, someday we can be...
Do you feel we as a community are sex addicts being in the lifestyle?
Probably y'all are, but we aren't. We really don't search for partners, but we don't turn them down if we like them and have the opportunity.
Could you quit it totally never go back to it ever?
We've quit for long periods of time because we didn't know anyone we wanted to play with (or maybe anyone who wanted to play with us). We've never had to go to counseling because of a need for a fix. Making love helps...
Have you ever gone 1 day without thinking about swinging?
Well, let's see, there was that day when our older son was being born and that day a couple of years later when the younger one chose to pop into this world...
Mr. Alura