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Originally posted by JustAskJulie
For me I wouldn't say that I'm addicted to the lifestyle. BUT, I've never been one who dealt well with monogamy. So, I don't know that I could ever put myself in a situation where it was required. Granted I did attempt to when I first got married but within a year found that it wasn't necessary.
So while I think I could give up swinging per se, I don't think I could commit to a strictly monogomous relationship. |
When we first started dating 4 years ago, hubby was quite up front about not being totally monogamous. At the time, I wasn't quite sure what that would mean, but as our relationship grew and we were married, I was the one who brought up swinging.
The difference for me is that we do this together, neither of us is looking for a poly relationship. I would have a problem dealing with a deep emotional attachment to another woman, and he's well aware of that. Which is probably why we will never swing separate.
Swinging has been great fun, so far, and has given us both an outlet outside of our own bedroom.