Am I a sex addict? No. Am I addicted to the swinging lifestyle? No. Am I poly by nature? Yes.
I can see never swinging again in my life, and it wouldnt be that big of a deal. However, I cannot see living my life completly monogomous to my partner. I crave other partners and other emotional partners.
Swingers tend to really seperate their emotions from their sex live. Thats not what i crave and like about the lifestyle. I would be much happier with a small group of friends that I can create emotional attachments than with large crowds of fucking people. Though, the latter sounds nice :-)
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