This is a great question...never thought about it before.
We arent into the clubs or the party part of the lifestyle. But,
am I addicted to the rest? Well i would have to say kinda. We have meet some great people in this and we dont play with many of them. It is nice to be able to be open about everything with someone knowing they wont think you are crazy or wierd.
Have we gone a day without thinking of it....Well no but we have only been in the lifestyle for 10 months so still new and exciting to us. It has given us a chance to explore our desires to the fullest without any worries. It has given us a chance to become even closer as a couple (although we had a great marriage to start with) It adds some newness to the relationship and has made us feel as thought we are dating in high school again.
Could i walk away from the lifestyle....YES! Although right now i dont see why i would. But it is only a small part of my life.
Are we sex addicts.....Well, i would have to say NO! (we had lots of sex before we got into this!!!!!!) LOL We dont play with everyone that we are friends with in this. It is more about being friends with perks to us. I feel that people in the lifestyle are in it for some Adult Fun!! Adds extra excitment to your life.
The people in this lifestyle (for the most part) are so much more open with their lives and you tend to learn alot from others. No one is going to say you are sick if you want to play with other. I feel it has enhanced me and my hubby ....We are even happier than we were before this and we feel more comfortable about discussing our desires with each other now.
well that is my 2 cents for the day.....s
