Put your foot down with him one last time. If you are swinging at all to make him happy (or doing anything, for that matter, JUST to make him happy) - STOP! And let him know that it will not continue. That you will not be pushed or connived into doing anything you are not comfortable with. I would also reccomend that you find a good marriage counselor. If he refuses to go, find a good lawyer. From the sounds of it, he's been pushing you head first since you got together. Having been through that once I can't imagine how you can stand to go through it again.
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