ricndi032903,
There is no need to apologise for your moral stance, that is a personal choice that everyone is entitled to make. Swinging isn't for everyone and knowing how you feel it is not something that we would recommend to you. One caveat that we have between us is that either of us can stop either a situation or stop both of us from swinging permanently by just saying so, with NO QUESTIONS ASKED.
Explain your stance to your husband one more time. If he doesn't accept it on face value see either a counselor or an attorney. Sorry to be so blunt, but to train a mule you first have to get his attention.
We wish you all the best.
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