The Swingers Board - View Single Post - How to get a husband who wants to swinging to stop trying to convince the wife?

ricndi032903 · 10-12-2003, 02:55 PM

Well Hello......
I never meant to offend anyone and sorry if my moral standards are just a bit high, but they are and personally I'm so sick and tired of defending the way I CHOOSE to live to a man that has no compassion for my feelings of what is right or wrong, he keeps telling me there is NO HARM, where I see the harm, he wants it, I DO NOT. I offer him what I think and believe I feel is safe and he gladly takes what I can offer, but it's the knowing that he wants more and would at any given chance if I said ok, he's throw me to another man just to GET HIS WIFE.
The talks that turn in days of arguing is killing this marriage cause he will not see my side and that for our marriage I just may know what will hurt or enhance it. AND fucking someone else for the FUN and THRILL of it is disgusting to me and makes me want to vomit, he knows how I feel and continually tells me with double talk that he is ok with my level but still see's no harm in the other stuff where I do.

thanks for llistening.

10-12-2003, 02:55 PM	#9 (permalink)
ricndi032903 Active Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 30 Location: PA Status: Couple	Well Hello...... I never meant to offend anyone and sorry if my moral standards are just a bit high, but they are and personally I'm so sick and tired of defending the way I CHOOSE to live to a man that has no compassion for my feelings of what is right or wrong, he keeps telling me there is NO HARM, where I see the harm, he wants it, I DO NOT. I offer him what I think and believe I feel is safe and he gladly takes what I can offer, but it's the knowing that he wants more and would at any given chance if I said ok, he's throw me to another man just to GET HIS WIFE. The talks that turn in days of arguing is killing this marriage cause he will not see my side and that for our marriage I just may know what will hurt or enhance it. AND fucking someone else for the FUN and THRILL of it is disgusting to me and makes me want to vomit, he knows how I feel and continually tells me with double talk that he is ok with my level but still see's no harm in the other stuff where I do. thanks for llistening.