We agree with the previous post. If both don't agree: We're out of there. We also won't play with a couple that doesn't appear to really like each other. If they seem to be into this just to be with someone other than their SO, we leave. You can tell fairly easily when they are the type you are speaking of. As for us: We just enjoy sex, and have a great sex life even when others aren't involved. We enjoy each other more than others though, and if either one of us isn't interested in both people, or either of us says "no" to something, for ANY reason....then that's it. There's no debate and no disappointment that we didn't get to do something with another person. Don't know how else to explain it except that it's still an "us" thing even when others are there.
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