Bah! 4th time I have timed out on a big response, at least Igot smart enough to copy my text before I hit the reply button..
Elusive you are correct on the timeline and the events to date.
Wife would not have (well once over two years ago) sex being totally naked, do the swing thing and she is totally naked there, yes wife and I are still on baby steps afterwards. The first year of our relationship it was normal, after the pregnancy/surgery things went this way.
What do I want out of this relationship? I dunno, a wife, love affection. The swing thing is fun, It can go on or stop - doesn't matter much to me - at least today. I want to rekindle what we used to have, lots of playing, foreplay etc. Prolly wont be to the same exitement level as when we were first dating, but on that same track. Wife wants to know how often I want sex, everyday? in amazement. I say, well yes. I am not getting what I want, things are better than before and things take time, maybe I am not patient thinking that our life would keep the pace of the swing thing.
This could be the beginning from the end as you say. We have been in limbo for close to 6 years now, I am curious what will happen next and how to proceed. If it is over, then thank god this helps speed that up, if I am wrong - I hope I am..
alabamafuntonig - yes things need to be aired out, If I ask I will get a bunch of excuses for this and that, all real & true things, wife is good about being able to change the subject like that.
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