Wife still has some pain when having sex, I think it is getting better the more sex she has.
When my wife pushed me away I left the room a few minutes later to go have a smoke and ponder my thoughts. Our friends both came out (one at a time) and we talked about my feelings. I also said everything to my wife afterwards.
Yes, it could be the beginning of the end as you say, the counselor did help - but we stopped going before we even talked about swigning. I want to ride this out and see what happens next, I could just be plain wrong and impatient. If it goes bad, oh well it was already coming that I can live with - since we were in limbo for so many years sometimes you have to fish or cut bait.
If it turns out all good and I am just impatient and worsening the situation by pestering sex from my wife all the time, then lesson learned. If I put a stop to it, I have a feeling that we will not progress as a couple (like resentment, etc.)
Just wonder how I should go about it..
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