sorry to drag this out... with all the questions... but I wanted to be sure that I understood.
Is she still having medical problems? pain with intercourse or limited sexual positions or ? Is it penetration she has a problem with... perhaps other forms of sex might be better received?
- I know there are certain positions that - I just find painful or too uncomfortable for long
how did the other couple react to your wife's behaviour?
-- I'd be a little perplexed if it was us. and since I think I'm a considerate person... I would probably switch my attention from wherever to YOU... I don't like people to feel left out or neglected.
did you talk to your wife about feeling left out?... I'm sure you did... but if you could try approaching it as a shared experience for both or us...
did you talk to the other couple about feeling left out? sounds like maybe the other guy did notice this was happening.
Don't know... wish I had something more to offer... I'll give it some thought... or maybe something else...
I hate to say this but if the marriage counselling isn't working... maybe this is the beginning of the end... if you know what I mean...