First off, Welcome to the Board. I'm glad you've found this place most of us enjoy and also that you've had the opportunity to read the various post on the topics that interest you.
Now as for your question...the first thing I noticed is that your header said
"Want Husband to try Bi." Now of course, I would want to know if your husband wants to try bi or if this is something you want him to try. Either way is just fine as long as both are in agreement.
There are quite a few threads on here dealing with bi men and some of the difficulties associated. Have you had the opportunity to look through those? And of course, it won't be long until lots of people have responded to your posts with their thoughts and ideas on the subject...and hopefully resulting in you coming back to visit with us frequently.
Have ya'll been involved in swinging long or is this something you are just finding an interest in?
Looking forward to hearing more from ya'll. - EBF