I'm with you, Sibella!!
I don't fantasize all that often, either. When I masturbate, I simply close my eyes and concentrate on what I am feeling.
Now, I do occasionally have fantasies. My favorite is one of myself and another woman giving my husband oral, kissing each other and then kissing him... We haven't actually done that yet, so it is still a fantasy. It is just one of those things that I think about sometimes in the last few minutes before sleep comes to me.
I wonder if we are different than other women, or if most are like us???
Best,
SARA
