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Originally posted by Buck
Your thoughts? EBF and Naughtygirl your thoughts would be appreciated too! Thanks in advance. |
I think it is just super that you were able to talk to her, Buck, and even more so that she didn't slam the doors in terms of fantasies. That alone will open up things for the two of you and that can only be a good thing.
About the only comments I would have at this point is to give her time to digest the conversation. I don't think I would let it die, nor would I push the issue just now. Slow and easy would be my mantra. Give her opportunities to bring it up to you...maybe a trip to the local porn store, allowing her to pick out the movies to be viewed. Sitting in the local mall watching people walk by and discussing with her who she might find interesting. Oh! and as silly as it may sound...when you do bring it up, do so when she is feeling great about herself. Not when she has her hands up to her elbows in dishwater, no make-up, hair a mess...
Also, if you haven't already done so, be certain to engage her in discussions of HER fantasies. This whole concept should be one of mutual fantasies and you want her to know her fantasies are just as important as yours.
And if nothing comes of it, you two will have great times together with your fantasies and that is the best of all. - EBF
