 MFM First Time
Judging from Sibella's and Naughtygirl's posts if it ever happens with me and my wife it will be a similar thing to theirs. A "just happen" thing. I think Sibella's comment "that we women really want it but won't admit it to you or ourselves" is exactly my situation. I have come to realize that my spouse probably will never admit it which leads me to believe that if it happens it will be a "set up" or just in the right place at the right time. I couldn't do a set up because I just don't think it's right but I think now if the opportunity ever happens that it is a possibility at the moment, I think I will not let that that opportunity pass by. At that time I would suggest it....there have been times in the past that were "ripe for it" so to speak but I didn't push or suggest and just let it pass by. I guess I won't let that happen again. Thanks for your comments Sibella and Naughtygirl, they have been helpful and reinforced what I have been thinking. Also thanks to Sexhoundog for freely discussing our similar situations.
I'm looking forward to spending the week-end alone with my wife so maybe I'll know more Monday than I do now. Time to push ahead a little further! |