My hubby & I have talked alot about MMF. Something we both wanted. He kept telling me to just pick the guy..which is easier said then done. I got some nerve up one night & said ok "this guy" who is a single friend of his. Hubby agreed 100% that it was a good pick as this guys knows about the lifestyle (not in it though) and hubby trusts him very much. Hubby talked to his friend about it & we made plans to go out for a few drinks.
Anyways...we get back to his place & I start to kiss him etc. He said " I cant do this" and I backed off, told him no problem, all is good. After watching some porn & chatting we started kissing and touching again (he started it). Clothes came off & oral play happened. At one point I said " I want you to F*ck me now". Well he said he just wasnt comfortable doing that & lost his erection. So hubby & I played while he watched. After we sat around & chatted. I made sure I let him know that although we didnt have sex I had an amazing time and honestly hope to do it again.
We are hoping with some time & more conversation we can try the MMF with him again. But if he isnt ok with it...he is still a great friend and my hubby & I MIGHT look for another male..unilt then 4somes & more somes.
naughtygirl27
