 my advice
Ummm. Okay well, I'm thinking it was a set up sort-of. Meaning, I think he told his friend, come on over we'll get her drunk and see what happens. At first he only wanted to watch us. my hubby and I, have sex. To me that was not threatening. He was just going to beat off while watching us. Now it has escalated. I guess what we've done is soft-swap. I'm not sure I will ever have intercourse except with hubby. I like the fact that I don't know when it will happen. It takes the responsibilty off me.
I would never have approached my husband with this. So if you want it to happen, you might need to arrange it "sort-of", then if the circumstances are right, it will happen. They didn't have to break my arm to do it, but I was never actually asked either. They just started touching me. Of course the beer helped a lot! It sounds like I was just like your wife, Buck.
I think we women want it, but we don't want to admit it to you or to ourselves, but when it happens, look out! It is great!
Best of luck,
Sibella |