LOL you sound like my hubby...He loves me getting attention. and he says it brings out the "real" me. And i have learned to let the real me come out more often. He enjoys it when i am felling sexy!!
You have taken the first step and it seems as though she is interested so contune to chatt with her about it and ya never know !!! I told my hubby no for 20 years about having someone play with us. He never pushed the issue though. He was totally shocked when i admitted that all along i would like to be with a woman and find out what it was like to be with another man...he was my first and only. And as for feelings afterwards with me and i think him to there was no doubt how we felt about each other. Niether of us felt any less tward each other it actually made us close and desire each other even more. I always worried that he would think less of me or desire me less but it was just the opposite. He says it turned him on to watch me. At first he was doubtfull he would enjoy seeing me with another man. but as it turned out he says that i looked so sexy having sex that he got even more aroused so??? ya never know. everyone is different. It is real important that you spend alot of time talking about your feelings and setting ground rules. cover all the basis in your ground rules from kissing to flirting and such. What you think you can handle or not handle. The rules can change as you are more comfy and make sure whoever you play with ( if you decide this is for you) knows all your ground rules and dont let them push you into anything that you dont want. You always have the right to say NO or leave. Your mate is more important than they are. If you keep that in mind you will enjoy.
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