I think an on-premises club is the best ffor a first time swing couple.
Why?
I think it allows you to see other actively participating in the lifestyle.
The questions that puts in your heads can be used to have discussions about your own personal rules.
You have the oppuntunity to see people say yes and see people say no. You learn it is "OK" to turn someone down or say our boundries are here and we do not do that.
It allows people to go at their own pace without getting into a room with another couple without knowing what is about to happen.
It allows new couples to see the people of all shapes, sizes, and personalities enjoy swinging.
I think on premises clubs answer more questions and offer less stress for new couples.
my 2 cents |