[BandC]

Hi, this is my first post here.

This past weekend, after I had be perusing this site for a few days I decided to find out how my fiancee felt about the idea of swinging. I was a little apprehensive about bringing it up because I had kind of hinted at it before and she had given signals that she wasn't into it, but I felt like she was just too shy to admit that she had any thoughts of that kind and it turned out I was right. She admitted to me that the idea of having two guys at once really turned her on. It's very exciting to know that she is even considering the possiblility of trying it at some point. She also acknowledged that there is a flip side to me allowing her to have sex with another man which is me having sex with another woman. I think I will have to let her have the man first, which I'm willing to do if we ever get to the point of actually doing this.

It's such a strange place to be in right now. I love my fiancee more than anything in the world and I am seriously considering letting someone else have sex with her. I asked her if she could have sex with someone else and still love me and she said yes, and I believe her because she is a (naughty) angel and would never lie to me, and I know that no matter what kind of physical contact I may ever have with another woman that nobody else is my Angel and I'll love her forever. That's what I call her, my Angel.

I think it would be very arousing to see her have sex with someone else, but I keep wondering if I'm going to feel like I've lost something special if I let someone else touch her. She was a virgin when she met me, and I very nearly was ( I had one sorry little encounter before I met her that I wish had never happened, but that is a whole 'nother story). Did any of you guys out there feel like that the first time you saw your wife penetrated by another man? I know communication is key, and we have great communication so nothing is going to happen unless we are both comfortable with it, but you never really know what you are going to do at the moment of truth until it happens. I'd really like to hear how other guys felt at that moment. I'd like to hear what the girls have to say too actually.

Thanks for reading my long post,

B