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**TNT** · 09-30-2003, 11:03 PM

Getting there early is always good, allows time to talk before the crowd arrives and the music goes up.

We too probably prefer the smaller crowds, however at a larger function if we know several people we just form our own small party within a party. Teresa is a social butterfly and will usually circulate through the crowd greeting old friends and meeting the new ones. I normally entertain our core crowd. I have found my most effective attention getter is wearing a tie, as many of the lovely ladies just want to take it off. I also dance (poorly), but the willingness to dance usually results in my receiving the attentions of several ladies again. Men that don't dance are my best allies.

The countdown to Bewitched on the Beach is getting low. Boy do I need a 3-day party!

Ted

09-30-2003, 11:03 PM	#3 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	Preferences Getting there early is always good, allows time to talk before the crowd arrives and the music goes up. We too probably prefer the smaller crowds, however at a larger function if we know several people we just form our own small party within a party. Teresa is a social butterfly and will usually circulate through the crowd greeting old friends and meeting the new ones. I normally entertain our core crowd. I have found my most effective attention getter is wearing a tie, as many of the lovely ladies just want to take it off. I also dance (poorly), but the willingness to dance usually results in my receiving the attentions of several ladies again. Men that don't dance are my best allies. The countdown to Bewitched on the Beach is getting low. Boy do I need a 3-day party! Ted
	__________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.