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Originally posted by Tarnished Halo
I just don't know if I should be looking for the personality side of people, or if I should just go with the physical attraction. |
You should go with whichever one
floats your boat the most.
From what you've said already - your "most . . . handsome" husband, your ideal of a "young male model" - physical appearance appears to be the primary draw for you. If that's all you're looking for, and you're unconcerned with being thought of as potentially superficial (some might voice the opinion, more people might be thinking it) then do what makes you feel best.
'Personality'
usually follows 'appearance' in the order in which they impact upon us, in that we
usually see people before we get chance to really know them. It's more difficult to derive a true idea of a person's/couple's personality from a one-off photo/advert/email, no matter how revealing or well-written. If you want to know what they're like inside - and whether they have a seductive, exciting, sexual personality - you'll often have to look beyond their exteriors first, whether those exteriors look like Brad Pitt or Waste Pitt.