I'm not quoting your post, Alura to keep the size of this post down.
I suppose we'll have to agree to disagree on this particular subject.

I'm a firm believer in the theory that if you're not in a married, monogamous relationship then you should be using condoms. The only sure fire way to be 100% safe is to have no sex...or masturbation. Condoms are the best we have available right now for the prevention of STDs (If I remember correctly the last I saw, latex condoms with the non-oxyl 9 spermicide had only a 5% failure rate). I'm just not very trusting of people when it comes to their sexual life. Even the one couple I went to college with and have played with for now going on 20 years, I still require him to wear a condom.
Thank you for the nice comments. I always look forward to reading your posts...I find then very insightful. BTW, hope you find some playmates soon!
Quin