Nittany,
Great discussion! I'm an open and honest bisexual male too. So don't feel alone out there! My first, and still best, bisexual experiece was with a swinging couple. If you can believe, it was largely initiated by the *woman* who wished to watch us men! I think it'd be nice if the swinging world treated male bisexuality for what it is -- something completely natural, ordinary, acceptable, even commonplace. Lots of statistics show that high percentages of men have experienced some sort of "bisexual" interaction at some point in their lives. Statistically, Bi experience is actually more common for men than for women. I myself never really considered being with BOTH men & women until I started wondering why I wasn't! I thought it might be "wrong" somehow. Rubbish! Turns out to be one of the best things I've ever done.
As for STDs, there are alot of things men can do together sexually (mutual masturbation, for example) that don't put them at risk of STDs.
So don't dispair, Nittany. There's more support out there than you (we) might initially believe.
Good Luck!
Thomas in CA
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