We won't play with single men, bi or not and it has little, if anything, to do with "homophobia," Julie. This is a rule which was insisted upon by Mrs. Alura some twenty years ago and has never been violated. Mr. Alura has no fear of being touched by another man "in the heat of the moment." In fact, this has happened more than a few times in our play. It would be quite impossible, for instance, for Mr. Alura to eat Mrs. Alura's (or the other lady's) pussy while she is being fucked by the other man if he insisted on never touching the other guy during play. Since that is Mrs. Alura's absolute favorite, ...well, you get the picture.
By restricting our play to couples, and couples who only play with couples, we feel we take a much lesser risk of STD's, particularly the more life-threatening ones. There is certainly no telling where that single-guy's cock was last night and a lot of single men cannot be trusted to level about their sexual history. A survey we once read showed well over fifty percent of single American men were willing to lie to have sex. (The result was almost as bad for single women.)
A news story we read a number of years ago in "Time" or "Newsweek" told of a bisexual man, a member with his wife of a swing club, who visited a bath house while on business in San Francisco, brought home AIDs and virtually wiped out the whole club. We've forgotten how many orphans the incident produced.
We won't trust our lives to condoms. We are happy to use them if our playmates request it , to prevent pregnancy, for instance, but if there is an indication that condoms are needed to protect against disease we simply won't play.
The social group in the USA with the lowest incidence of AIDs is lesbians. The reasons for that seem obvious to us. The group with the next lowest incidence is married couples, who eschew intravenous drugs. We feel we can all learn a lesson from that information.
Perhaps by putting these restrictions on ourselves we are passing up a lot of fun, but maybe we can have some fun without making our kids parentless.
Alura
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