I'm certainly no medical expert, and at this time in my life right now, I am not at my desired weight. However I am a woman and I'll give you what my impression was by reading grabyzz's original posting.
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But wife is self concious about her body, thinks she's fat. In her words, " I'm not sharing this fat, white ass with anybody...."
Any suggestions in how to lose the " fat white ass"? Shes tried alot of different things, diet, exercise, metabolife, etc....
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Note that many different things have been tried. As those who have said "She needs to be comfortable with herself"....that statement couldn't be more true.
I believe our lives are connected to our own personal happiness. This equates into not only your energy levels but diet. I've had periods in my life where I would get overweight during depressing or stressfull times, and others where I was so thin, I had the doctors running tests to make sure that I didn't have some life threatening illness. I was just simply having so much fun that my metabolism was very high.
As another stated here, we too have not had any problem attracting other swingers. Not only is my fat white ass a factor, we have the age factor too. I've just never seen it to be a problem. And if it hasn't been a problem for us, it won't be for anyone else either.
So grabyzz's, my suggestion is talk to your wife. Find out what the real issue is. If she hasn't already, have her get involved with you on this board. She is going to see there are a whole lot of us that have or even still do, feel the same as she does right now.
Best wishes.