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Originally posted by Elusive BiFem
If you want to get right down to it...for all of us, the first step in becoming comfortable with our own fat, white asses, whatever they may be, is becoming comfortable with ourselves for who and what we are. The rest will follow.
- EBF |
It's hard to say it any better than that...
What it took for us was getting out and meeting other swingers in a club environment. Looking around the room, we realized that swingers come in all sorts of shapes and sizes, and that sexy hasn't got as much to do with what you look like as it does with how comfortable you are with yourself.
See if you can find an off-premise club or "meet 'n greet" near you. I think you'll find out the same thing we did, that most swingers are just regular folks and there's no need to be self-conscious about what most will see as a very beautiful ass
-B