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Old 09-05-2003, 10:23 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: Re: Self concious about body

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Originally posted by Elusive BiFem
If you want to get right down to it...for all of us, the first step in becoming comfortable with our own fat, white asses, whatever they may be, is becoming comfortable with ourselves for who and what we are. The rest will follow.
- EBF
You are a bloody genius, woman. Do you know how sexy intelligence is? Keep this up and we will have to come up to Dallas just to well and truly jump your bones...

But I digress...

As for grabbyzz's wife, on the one hand, if she really wants to get rid of that "fat white ass" (which is a shame, cuz I LOOOVE big bottoms...oops, digressing again), the short answer is burn more fuel (i.e. body fat) than you take in and get regular exercise. I say this as a man who has been involved with a number of BBWs over the years, some of whom did this.

However, EBF is quite correct. She needs to get comfortable with who she is, and that includes her shape. Aside from the usual number of Barbie and Ken clone assholes who turn up their noses at anyone who can't grace the cover of Cosmo or GQ, she will find that there are a helluva lot of people out there who will find her attractive and desirable just as she is. Real sexiness and allure come from within.

-- Bear
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