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Originally posted by Ditto
She told me that on occation she could be bi - soley for the benifit of letting her husband watch.
I had no problem with this, because my hubby wanted to watch to!! That evening it just happened.
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Please don't take this in the wrong way, but I need to express this.
Understand that I am taking this off of the written word. I don't have the opportunity to sit with you in person and hear the inflection of voice or ask for clarification.
About 8 months or so ago, I laid down the law...and this is one rule I will not break, ever. There must be a comfort level and attraction to another female for me to swing with them. NO EXCEPTIONS.
Having been on ad sites for about two years and having met with many couples for dinner...all I can say, is that you haven't lived until you have sat in a public restroom with a woman bawling her eyes out because her husband thought she wasn't being nice enough for me to wanna play with her, so he could watch. That did it for me.
While I think it is an ultimate fantasy for many men, I'm just not gonna be party to please the guys. This is one reason we removed my sexual orientation in our online ads. If there is no attraction then there isn't going to be any play between myself and another female.
In my opinion, people just don't be bi for someone else. You either are or you aren't, and you are selective or you aren't, and most true bi-females are very selective....no different than the attraction you have for men. I wouldn't just do any guy for my husband, nor would he expect me to.