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OhioCouple · 08-30-2003, 05:23 PM

Sorry, Ditto.

I have to agree with Bear. Anytime sexual activity occurs between someone other that your beloved, it is an exchange of sex, regardless of the gender.

Can you honestly say to yourself that what you experienced with this gal, was not in any way sexual. Did you not touch each other at all? If you had masturbated in the same room with them, no touching...etc., then you are still soft swap, by definition of what your boundries were before you ever met with this couple. I say this as you stated that there was to be no contact between any parties. This in my eyes would include girl/girl action. Therefore that boundry was surpassed and no one seemed none the less pleased about it. However, how is it on the second meet when another boundry is surpassed that it is different?

Did ya'll take a moment and sit down and chat about the girlie stuff before you did it, or did it just happen? My guess is that it just happened. If that is the case and I were of the opposite party, I'd have to assume that new levels have been opened and maybe it could move a little more forward, seeing how you already surpassed a pre-set boundry the week prior. This is why communication is so very important. Not just between yourselves, but with those you play with too.

08-30-2003, 05:23 PM	#13 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	Sorry, Ditto. I have to agree with Bear. Anytime sexual activity occurs between someone other that your beloved, it is an exchange of sex, regardless of the gender. Can you honestly say to yourself that what you experienced with this gal, was not in any way sexual. Did you not touch each other at all? If you had masturbated in the same room with them, no touching...etc., then you are still soft swap, by definition of what your boundries were before you ever met with this couple. I say this as you stated that there was to be no contact between any parties. This in my eyes would include girl/girl action. Therefore that boundry was surpassed and no one seemed none the less pleased about it. However, how is it on the second meet when another boundry is surpassed that it is different? Did ya'll take a moment and sit down and chat about the girlie stuff before you did it, or did it just happen? My guess is that it just happened. If that is the case and I were of the opposite party, I'd have to assume that new levels have been opened and maybe it could move a little more forward, seeing how you already surpassed a pre-set boundry the week prior. This is why communication is so very important. Not just between yourselves, but with those you play with too. __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.