The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Should I tell my husband that I crossed a boundary?

Elusive BiFem · 08-30-2003, 01:28 PM

I'm 99% with everyone that has posted on this thread, thus far. Brit_Pair did a fine job in summing up all aspects.

The remaining 1% is reserved for the honesty bit, but that is something you will need to decide based upon your relationship with your husband. I don't believe I would risk my entire relationship for this single indiscretion, but I would be darned certain it was never repeated.

And like others, I have serious questions about this guy's motives. You share culpability equally, but it's hard for me to understand why he would come by in the absence of your spouse and even suggest "cuddling."

Another thing I find troubling is the statement that "we got carried away." How does that happen between 2 adults? That is difficult for me to understand, but still, I do wish you the best of luck in this difficult situation. - EBF

08-30-2003, 01:28 PM	#8 (permalink)
Elusive BiFem Active Member Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 3,400 Location: Texas Status: Single Female	I'm 99% with everyone that has posted on this thread, thus far. Brit_Pair did a fine job in summing up all aspects. The remaining 1% is reserved for the honesty bit, but that is something you will need to decide based upon your relationship with your husband. I don't believe I would risk my entire relationship for this single indiscretion, but I would be darned certain it was never repeated. And like others, I have serious questions about this guy's motives. You share culpability equally, but it's hard for me to understand why he would come by in the absence of your spouse and even suggest "cuddling." Another thing I find troubling is the statement that "we got carried away." How does that happen between 2 adults? That is difficult for me to understand, but still, I do wish you the best of luck in this difficult situation. - EBF