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Originally posted by Nymph an' Satyr
Tell your husband. If you tell him, it's an indiscretion that you are sorry that happened. A boundry that was crossed that you won't cross again. If that happened to me, I would be pissed, but it would NOT threaten our relationship.
If you don't tell him, it's infidelity. If that happened to me I would be LIVID- and it WOULD threaten our relationship. ...
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I absolutely agree with Nymph an' Satyr here. As hard as it might be, you
must tell him yourself. It will be much worse if you try to hide what happened from him and he finds out later. Indescretion is one thing, lying and deceiving is quite another.
I also agree with Chicup, Brit_Pair and others that he knew exactly what he wanted when he came over. Even cuddling with you alone crosses a big red line with me. That's treading into some dangerous emotional territory, and it's not a place that
I would ever go.
-B