ill be short and sweet about this
do tell him
choices made with haphazaed thought always bear bad outcomes! to clarify you did the deed fess up!. I cuddle with my wife! its a sign of intimate closeness! a beckon call to the more natural bonding between husband and wife ,forplay for love. sex is what was on his mind the boundry was crossed and now deception is setting in! its bad enough you had sex but dont lie! its better to feel pain for now than to suffer till the end of time ...
but of course some are better at getting away from there concience than others are! and if closeness and truth in a relationship do not matter than keep it to yourself! |