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Originally posted by JustAskJulie
I would say sit down with both of them and talk to them when you are all sober about what happened that night and about what their boundaries (and yours) really are. Let them know that if they want to continue seeing you that all boundaries much be adhered and perhaps even make it a rule to avoid alchohol when you are all together. |
I have to agree wholeheartedly with this. If you like the couple and would really like to see them again, this advice is a MUST do. They may even be feeling quite antsy or embarassed about the whole occurence of events too. It's easy to slip up, especially when alcohol is involved.
Have you talked with them since then? Let us know how which direction you take. You aren't the first that this has happened to, and most definitely will not be the last, but your experience in how you decided to handle it, will help others.