Sounds like the biggest player in this drama was alchohol. It's easy to let boundaries slip when alchohol is involved and that may well have been the case with this lady.
I would say sit down with both of them and talk to them when you are all sober about what happened that night and about what their boundaries (and yours) really are. Let them know that if they want to continue seeing you that all boundaries much be adhered and perhaps even make it a rule to avoid alchohol when you are all together.
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