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thekolonel · 08-26-2003, 01:18 PM

"1) A lot of the couples we found online are made up of mid-to-late 30's guys and early to mid-20's girls. (i.e, Him: 37, Her: 25)"

The age difference itself isn't a big deal to us. What is vexing is that we sometimes meet young, pretty women attatched to guys who are not that attractive physically or even personality-wise.

"2) Several of these same couples we found are not married, and two that we met personally have been 'in the lifestyle' since the beginning of their relationships (1-2 years ago on average). "

Well, hell, we aren't married. But then again we've been together many years. We don't expect others to be married, but we look for signs that their relationship is stable. When we hear they've been swinging since day one it's a definite red flag for us.

08-26-2003, 01:18 PM	#8 (permalink)
thekolonel Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 68 Location: NYC Status: Couple	"1) A lot of the couples we found online are made up of mid-to-late 30's guys and early to mid-20's girls. (i.e, Him: 37, Her: 25)" The age difference itself isn't a big deal to us. What is vexing is that we sometimes meet young, pretty women attatched to guys who are not that attractive physically or even personality-wise. "2) Several of these same couples we found are not married, and two that we met personally have been 'in the lifestyle' since the beginning of their relationships (1-2 years ago on average). " Well, hell, we aren't married. But then again we've been together many years. We don't expect others to be married, but we look for signs that their relationship is stable. When we hear they've been swinging since day one it's a definite red flag for us.