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Originally posted by Ditto
He thinks that a man can have sex/swing and not be really attracted to the women.
On the other hand I think that most women have to be attracted to the man in order to have sex/swing.
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Uh... I'd have to say exactly the opposite.
for a man to achieve an erection... I would expect some attraction would have to be there.
but women can have sex even without being excited...
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Lets say you meet a couple at a club. The guy is fairly good looking, has a nice smile, is well groomed, polite and respectful. After several drinks, you get up and slow dance a bit. The conversation is witty and the guy is fun to visit with, but the attraction or chemistry is just not there for you.
In the mean time tho, your partner is enjoying themself with the other half of the couple and the attraction/chemistry "IS" there.
Would you swing with the couple anyway under these circumstances? |
depends on
Your PERSONAL Rules
if you only swing together... never separately then... No...
there should be mutual attraction between all the parties involved.
the other term I have heard used for this is "take one for the team"...
if you do swing separately than... that is between you both... whatever your own rules are... he can go off with her and leave you free to find your fun elsewhere...