He & She & Attraction
We are members of an on premise club and go to the club most Saturday nights. As many have said, each night is different. We make it a practice to discuss the various couples that one of us may like to play with to see if the other is also interested in them. After almost 31 years of marriage, we are usually in agreement.
However, the decision to act is up to me, the female half. I am finding that although I may agree with hubby on our interest in a couple, I need more interaction with the couple before deciding to act.
Hubby finds the other wife attractive physically and is ready to play.
I find the other husband attractive physically but hesitate until there has been some conversation.
Now, the conversation usually confirms the initial attraction, but I am more comfortable with taking the time to get to know the other couple.
Hope I made sense.
Pauline
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