Wow Ladies,
After re-reading my initial post, Heck I'm confused now!
The Attraction that I am speaking of is the no holds barred, I wanna jump your bones type of attraction or chemistry if you will.
Lets say you meet a couple at a club. The guy is fairly good looking, has a nice smile, is well groomed, polite and respectful. After several drinks, you get up and slow dance a bit. The conversation is witty and the guy is fun to visit with, but the attraction or chemistry is just not there for you.
In the mean time tho, your partner is enjoying themself with the other half of the couple and the attraction/chemistry "IS" there.
Would you swing with the couple anyway under these circumstances?
Later,
Mrs Ditto