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Originally posted by Elusive BiFem
Why, Jen, did my post cause you to gulp and yell for help? I'm confused.... Did I miss the point entirely? - EBF  |
I dunno if you did or you didn't, I only know that your thoughts caused me more thoughts and the re - thoughts caused my head to tilt to one side and my mouth.. oh you remember.
The whole thing is confusing cause do you have sex with someone you have zero attraction to? Could you? Is that the question itself?
If I am being asked -- could I have sex with someone that I had no attraction of any kind to...then no just no no no.
If I am being asked...does the attraction have to be from physical appearance...then no just no no no.
Attractions for me very rarely are from appearance.
Maybe a smile or a certain way I was looked at or spoken to.
Maybe the way he interacts with others around him.
Maybe a kindness he expressed to a stranger that I was lucky enough to witness --
Or maybe any combination of a zillion different things has sparked my initial interest. There has to be some sort of interest or attraction.
If I'm being asked would I be ok with someone just having sex with me even though they have no attraction to me of any sort.....then no just no no no.
I dunno or something.
EBF, your post gave me good thoughts as always!
The gulps and helps were from the mix of thoughts. I think I'm better now, my bad.
