We are a May/December romance/married couple. Granted we are older...however..
I don't think you can guage a relationship by commitment (in this case marriage) or their openenss with each other.
While still in my twenties, I was attracted to older males as they had (sorry guys) more maturity which matched mine. While I ddn't commit to a lifetime relationship until well into the relationship with my husband, we talked of (we didn't know it then) swinging. Very early on.
Would we have persued it unmarried? Most likely. It interested us both and we were open enough with each other to talk about it.
From what I have come to learn over the last couple of years, is that you can be any age and enjoy your sexuality. I really don't think age itself has a bearing on it. Perhaps these guys are ten miles (or ten years) ahead of some of us older folks.
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