The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Can a man have sex with a woman without physical attraction?

Ditto · 08-25-2003, 02:47 PM

Hi ya'all,

Please forgive this really stupid question but Mr Ditto and I have been having a disagreement that maybe ya'all could help us with.

He thinks that a man can have sex/swing and not be really attracted to the women.

On the other hand I think that most women have to be attracted to the man in order to have sex/swing.

So....... Do the ladies of the board need to feel a "Real" attraction for the guy OR is a genuine fondness for him all that is needed to make the decision to swing?

Thanks

Mrs Ditto

08-25-2003, 02:47 PM	#1 (permalink)
Ditto Active Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 15 Location: St. Louis Area Status: Couple	Can a man have sex with a woman without physical attraction? Hi ya'all, Please forgive this really stupid question but Mr Ditto and I have been having a disagreement that maybe ya'all could help us with. He thinks that a man can have sex/swing and not be really attracted to the women. On the other hand I think that most women have to be attracted to the man in order to have sex/swing. So....... Do the ladies of the board need to feel a "Real" attraction for the guy OR is a genuine fondness for him all that is needed to make the decision to swing? Thanks Mrs Ditto