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saranmark · 08-25-2003, 01:29 PM

Wow... I would feel hurt, too, I am afraid!

I think you have to really sit down with your husband and re-establish your boundaries, and then make a pact that you will NOT change them on the spur of the moment, no matter what!

I, personally, wouldn't swing with that particular couple again. It might not seem fair, but she has already crossed the line. Maybe she made a mistake, and some would argue that she would deserve a second chance, but to me, your marriage is the most important thing.

Maybe you can just chalk this up to inexperience, and go out and find someone new!

I hope everything works out!

Best,
SARA

08-25-2003, 01:29 PM	#4 (permalink)
saranmark Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 153 Location: Elkhart, IN Status: Married Couple-female half	Wow... I would feel hurt, too, I am afraid! I think you have to really sit down with your husband and re-establish your boundaries, and then make a pact that you will NOT change them on the spur of the moment, no matter what! I, personally, wouldn't swing with that particular couple again. It might not seem fair, but she has already crossed the line. Maybe she made a mistake, and some would argue that she would deserve a second chance, but to me, your marriage is the most important thing. Maybe you can just chalk this up to inexperience, and go out and find someone new! I hope everything works out! Best, SARA __________________ You know what they say: When in Rome, do... a Roman!!