Hi Ya'all,
We are new to the board, and wanted to introduce ourselves and thank ya'all for such a great place to get info on this lifestyle.
We are also new to everything and have just recently experienced our first soft-swing. The couple that broke us in are newbie's to, so this is a classic case of the blind leading the blind
Our first time was great, we all agreed that we wanted to play with our own partners, watch etc. Nothing was discussed about a girl/girl thing, and needless to say, we (us girls)ended up playing. I think we all had a good time that night, so we all decided to get together again.
Our second get together kinda leaves me confused and just a tad bit jealous.
The wife of the couple started using alcohol, The more she drank the bolder she became. She and my husband were flirting, back and forth, using "Body Language" as I would call it and she started becoming touchy feel'ly. In the mean time Her husband and I just sorta sit there etc, and discussed the weather, and his inability to maintain an erection? WOW! Now this is really getting interesting!
The wife then announces that she would be willing to do a full swap provided that we take things slow and work up to it. On the other hand, I am now completly dumb founded because not 1 hour ago this same woman told us that she wanted to limit things to our partners only!
Needless to say we ended the evening not doing anything, and told them that we might be able to get together next weekend. So now I am wondering how to handle the situation, Should we get together again knowing that they are trying to push our boundries out of bounds OR.... ?
Thanks,
Ann