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For me, I need to be "interested" in the person. I need to know the person. I need to like the person for all the parts that I think are really important - mind, heart, spirit, values, their ability to be discreet, common interests other than swining.... After that, physical appearance falls to the bottom of my list.
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Once again EBF, we fall on the same page. My attraction to someone doesn't really start until I get to know them; male or female. Heck, make me laugh, or smile, or just feel good being with you and I'm yours. I can just about guarantee you that I wouldn't feel that way with someone who was more interested in their hair or whether I was attactive enough to play with, would do it for me. I know that while I'm not barbie, I am a very festive playmate and it's their loss if they aren't willing to go beyond first impressions.
Luv Tunes, I'm glad this thread helped. This board helped me so much when I first started out, before I'd actually gotten naked with someone besides my hubby. It made me feel comfortable with not only myself, but with swinging. These are good people here.
-- Bunny