Sexy is a state of mind, not body. If you are fun to be with, have confidence in yourself, can carry on a good conversation and reflect a positive attitude we'll be happy to spend time with you, and if we hit it off, who knows where that will lead
It's not really what you look like, it's who you are that will attract us.
We know that everyone isn't like that, of course, and to each their own. But, we don't think that you should be afraid to 'go for it', so to speak. We all will be rejected one time or another. People might think I'm too hairy, too short, too blond, or too something else, but I'll just keep on going and look elsewhere
This link will take you to several threads on the subject. It comes up all the time, believe me.
Be comfortable with yourself and others will be comfortable with you.
-B