I'm a former weightlifter who has put on a few extra gut pounds myself, and my wife comes from a family of big people plus she's got a few extra. Although we occasionally reminisce over old pictures when we were "hotter", is it really worth the effort to worry about what those who are totally into themselves think?
I still like to pump iron to try and keep in a little shape, but I really got tired of those assholes who spent half their time working out and the other half with their egotistical (or is it insecure maybe?) faces glued to the mirror.
So unless you're grossly overweight, which is also a health issue, I wouldn't worry a lick. My wife's getting some gray and is heavy, but she's probably already forgotten more in bed than some of the so called "hotties" will ever know, and is still one of the two best pieces of tail I've had, and I've had lots.
If hubby thinks you're still hot and others have called you sensual and sexual, you are far better off than lots of women in this world. Believe me, people will find you. And if they don't, it's their loss. Hold your head up high, Luv-Tunes. I'm sure you exude sexuality to those who can sense it, and isn't that who you want to impress anyway?!
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