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Originally posted by saranmark
It seems rather comforting to me, knowing that they won't know what to do any more than we will, but if NONE of us knows when to make the first move, when the time is right, etc, -- that would be bad, too.
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Everyone has given you excellent advice. I want to just expound on making sure the communication is very good between the four of you BEFORE you attempt any sort of play activity. The funny thing is...we have discovered that this sort of stress also comes with meeting new couples, even though we are now considered experienced of sorts. What we have come to find out is that, sometimes it just evolves naturally, even when the ground rules were set specifically to not play. As long as everyone is communicating as it occurs, then it works out wonderfully. Again, the key word communication.
As you don't say what your plans are (if any) as to where and how you were going to meet... I'd suggest taking a look through the
SWINGERS GAMES forum. There are some great ice breaker games in there, any where from mild to wild.
Also, my most favorite ice breaker is a hot tub.
