The most important thing is that you are all comfortable with each other.
Since you are all newbies I would highly suggest that you make you sure you all sit and talk about your boundaries and preferences.
Recalling our first experience with a couple. They were also fairly new to things and we didn't really discuss everything ahead of time which led to some problems. Like they didn't let us know that they prefer everyone in the same bed, which wouldn't have been a problem for us.
There were also things that as newbies none of us had figured out about ourselves (like that the other guy preferred to watch rather than be actively involved) which led to issues.
The more you can talk to the other couple and get to know them and their desires/prefs/boundaries... and just feel comfortable with them in general, the better off you will be. |